Is He first in our life?

Colossians 1:18 AMP

He also is the Head of [His] body, the church; seeing He is
the Beginning, the Firstborn from among the dead, so that He alone in everything and in every respect might occupy the chief place [stand
first and be preeminent].
Don’t know about you but when I look at my life there are way too many places where I have Him in other places but not first! Thankfully we have 1 John 1:9!!